Last week I briefly wrote about people’s tendency to compare their marriage with other marriages. There can be a world of difference between what you see, rather perceive and what exists. How easy it is to paint a rosy picture of your relationship, despite a contrasting reality, courtesy social media. If this disposition to compare […]
Attitude of gratitude Read More »
Just like water finds its own level so does every relationship. The problem is people try to apply a generalized approach to their marriage, compare it with others and end up feeling miserable. By a generic application I mean following the ‘relationship gems’ blindly. For example, just because it is believed one should never go
You are unique and so is your marriage Read More »
A couple I met recently were on the road to divorce. They seemed pretty convinced about their decision to separate. Predominantly the wife. She told me she was done with her marriage. When I asked her, what made her attend this meeting if she had already made up her mind, she said her husband wanted
Very often I have seen women complain to me that their husbands just wont listen to them and that they are emotionally unavailable. This can leave them feeling disconnected, resentful and lonely. Since communication is an inherent part of every woman, it is a critical part of building the relationship. It helps her feel safe
Is your partner a poor listener – you could be responsible Read More »
