Marriage – an eye opener?

Seven year itch is passé. What followed was a three year itch. Needless to say, that too is obsolete. As if the six month itch was not enough, the latest is a three month itch. Years have turned to months and do I dare say it can turn into weeks??? Well, I certainly hope not.

Why does a marriage have to be an eye opener for a relationship? Is it the familiarity, the taken for granted attitude or the demystification of too many facets in a marriage? Every relationship goes through a cycle of stages which become impossible to skip. Each stage comes with its own share of charm. Fundamentally, the relationship should keep growing with time. Why do couples find it difficult to feel the same way about a marriage as they once did? Changes in a relationship are inevitable. And surpassing certain stages in a marriage cycle unavoidable. Analogy of a plant suits this aspect the best. The more we nurture it, the better it grows. Physical love grows into emotional love over a period of time, public display of affections convert to silent communication patterns, meant to be understood only by the partners. Nothing can be more beautiful that growing with your partner not just chronologically but also as a person. Mentally stimulating marriages are a product of long years of togetherness.

Why not make the institution of marriage itch free and convert blissful days into weeks and months of romance, to years of love and affection? Accept, agree and act, young couples of today!!!!! Make your marriage the envy of the world.