It’s effective to change your perspective
Generally, couples seeking therapy are always sceptical if they can be helped. Over the years they have gone around in…
Don’t roar even if it’s in your core
A couple was on a verge of divorce. They were convinced they would never be able to save their marriage. …
Attitude of gratitude
Last week I briefly wrote about people’s tendency to compare their marriage with other marriages. There can be a world…
You are unique and so is your marriage
Just like water finds its own level so does every relationship. The problem is people try to apply a generalized…
Don’t give up
A couple I met recently were on the road to divorce. They seemed pretty convinced about their decision to separate.…
Is your partner a poor listener – you could be responsible
Very often I have seen women complain to me that their husbands just wont listen to them and that they…
Accepting differences can avoid differences
Men and women are wired differently. The first thing to understand; a fundamental fact to recognize and follow - explicitly…
You can make a difference to yourself and others
To love and be loved are basic human needs. Unfortunately, not all relationships take care of these needs. People across…
Alter and delete control
A recent ruling from the Mumbai high court makes emotional abuse as offensive as physical abuse. A welcome verdict indeed!…
Let the love last
On a recent flight, I had a couple seated next to me. Both looked in their mid-forties. While I had…